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On the Way to LLM Personalization: Learning to Remember User Conversations

arXiv 2411.13405 ↗First posted 20 Nov 2024cs.CL cs.LGcited by 21

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Large Language Models (LLMs) have quickly become an invaluable assistant for a variety of tasks. However, their effectiveness is constrained by their ability to tailor responses to human preferences and behaviors via personalization. Prior work in LLM personalization has largely focused on style transfer or incorporating small factoids about the user, as knowledge injection remains an open challenge. In this paper, we explore injecting knowledge of prior conversations into LLMs to enable future work on less redundant, personalized conversations. We identify two real-world constraints: (1) conversations are sequential in time and must be treated as such during training, and (2) per-user personalization is only viable in parameter-efficient settings. To this aim, we propose PLUM, a pipeline performing data augmentation for up-sampling conversations as question-answer pairs, that are then used to finetune a low-rank adaptation adapter with a weighted cross entropy loss. Even in this first exploration of the problem, we perform competitively with baselines such as RAG, attaining an accuracy of 81.5% across 100 conversations.

Key facts. Cited by 21 papers in the map (data through 13 Oct 2026). Builds on 46 of its 67 references that are in the map. First posted on arXiv 20 Nov 2024.

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  1. 2025A Survey of Personalized Large Language Models: Progress and Future Directionscited by 69
  2. 2025PersonaLens: A Benchmark for Personalization Evaluation in Conversational AI Assistantscited by 46
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  5. 2025Presumed Cultural Identity: How Names Shape LLM Responsescited by 21
  6. 2025InfiniteICL: Breaking the Limit of Context Window Size via Long Short-term Memory Transformationcited by 16
  7. 2025PRIME: Large Language Model Personalization with Cognitive Dual-Memory and Personalized Thought Processcited by 16
  8. 2025Anthropomimetic Uncertainty: What Verbalized Uncertainty in Language Models is Missingcited by 14
  9. 2025TOM-SWE: User Mental Modeling For Software Engineering Agentscited by 11
  10. 2025MR.Rec: Synergizing Memory and Reasoning for Personalized Recommendation Assistant with LLMscited by 9
  11. 2025Evolution of meta's llama models and parameter-efficient fine-tuning of large language models: a surveycited by 5
  12. 2026Rethinking Personalization in Large Language Models at the Token Levelcited by 3
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  3. 2026PromptHelper: A Prompt Recommender System for Encouraging Creativity in AI Chatbot Interactionscited by 0
  4. 2026A Reflective Storytelling Agent for Older Adults: Integrating Argumentation Schemes and Argument Mining in LLM-Based Personalised Narrativescited by 0
  5. 2026ExPerT: Personalizing LLM Responses to Users' Domain Expertise via Query-Wise Semantic and Keystroke Behavioral Cuescited by 0
  6. 2026APeB: Benchmarking Personalization Ability of Large Language Model Agentscited by 0
  7. 2026HyperTrace: Hypothesis-Based Preference Tracing for Online LLM Personalizationcited by 0
  8. 2026Mind2Dialogue: Training Human-Aware Language Models by Simulating User Mental Statescited by 0
  9. 2026When Who You Are Can Change the Code You Get: A Study of Persona-Induced Bias in LLM Code Generationcited by 0

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