Selective Prompting Tuning for Personalized Conversations with LLMs
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Abstract (arXiv)
In conversational AI, personalizing dialogues with persona profiles and contextual understanding is essential. Despite large language models' (LLMs) improved response coherence, effective persona integration remains a challenge. In this work, we first study two common approaches for personalizing LLMs: textual prompting and direct fine-tuning. We observed that textual prompting often struggles to yield responses that are similar to the ground truths in datasets, while direct fine-tuning tends to produce repetitive or overly generic replies. To alleviate those issues, we propose Selective Prompt Tuning (SPT), which softly prompts LLMs for personalized conversations in a selective way. Concretely, SPT initializes a set of soft prompts and uses a trainable dense retriever to adaptively select suitable soft prompts for LLMs according to different input contexts, where the prompt retriever is dynamically updated through feedback from the LLMs. Additionally, we propose context-prompt contrastive learning and prompt fusion learning to encourage the SPT to enhance the diversity of personalized conversations. Experiments on the CONVAI2 dataset demonstrate that SPT significantly enhances response diversity by up to 90%, along with improvements in other critical performance indicators. Those results highlight the efficacy of SPT in fostering engaging and personalized dialogue generation. The SPT model code (https://github.com/hqsiswiliam/SPT) is publicly available for further exploration.
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- 2025PersonaLens: A Benchmark for Personalization Evaluation in Conversational AI Assistantscited by 44
- 2025A Survey on Personalized Alignment -- The Missing Piece for Large Language Models in Real-World Applicationscited by 40
- 2025A Survey on Personalized and Pluralistic Preference Alignment in Large Language Modelscited by 25
- 2024On the Way to LLM Personalization: Learning to Remember User Conversationscited by 21
- 2025Modeling and Optimizing User Preferences in AI Copilots: A Comprehensive Survey and Taxonomycited by 3
- 2026Beyond Retrieval: Learning Compact User Representations for Scalable LLM Personalizationcited by 3
- 2025From Canonical to Complex: Benchmarking LLM Capabilities in Undergraduate Thermodynamicscited by 2
- 2024A Grounded Observer Framework for Establishing Guardrails for Foundation Models in Socially Sensitive Domainscited by 1
- 2025Finding A Voice: Exploring the Potential of African American Dialect and Voice Generation for Chatbotscited by 1
- 2025Score Before You Speak: Improving Persona Consistency in Dialogue Generation using Response Quality Scorescited by 1
- 2025Persona-Aware Alignment Framework for Personalized Dialogue Generationcited by 1
- 2026EpiPersona: Persona Projection and Episode Coupling for Pluralistic Preference Modelingcited by 0
- 2026Aplaud: Adaptive Personalized Low-Rank Decomposition for User-Specific LLM4 Sep 2026
- 2026Learning to Adapt Cross-Domain Preferences via Meta-LoRA for LLM Personalization1 Aug 2026
- 2026Beyond Retrieval: Learning Compact User Representations for Scalable LLM Personalization3 Jun 2026
- 2026An Annotation Scheme and Classifier for Personal Facts in Dialogue11 May 2026
- 2026EpiPersona: Persona Projection and Episode Coupling for Pluralistic Preference Modeling30 Mar 2026
- 2025Persona-Aware Alignment Framework for Personalized Dialogue Generation13 Nov 2025
- 2025From Canonical to Complex: Benchmarking LLM Capabilities in Undergraduate Thermodynamics29 Aug 2025
- 2025Score Before You Speak: Improving Persona Consistency in Dialogue Generation using Response Quality Scores9 Aug 2025
- 2025PersonaLens: A Benchmark for Personalization Evaluation in Conversational AI Assistants11 Jun 2025
- 2025Modeling and Optimizing User Preferences in AI Copilots: A Comprehensive Survey and Taxonomy28 May 2025
- 2025A Survey on Personalized and Pluralistic Preference Alignment in Large Language Models9 Apr 2025
- 2025A Survey on Personalized Alignment -- The Missing Piece for Large Language Models in Real-World Applications21 Mar 2025
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- 2025Finding A Voice: Exploring the Potential of African American Dialect and Voice Generation for Chatbots7 Jan 2025
- 2024A Grounded Observer Framework for Establishing Guardrails for Foundation Models in Socially Sensitive Domains23 Dec 2024
- 2024On the Way to LLM Personalization: Learning to Remember User Conversations20 Nov 2024
- 2025A Survey on Personalized Alignment -- The Missing Piece for Large Language Models in Real-World Applicationscited by 40
- 2025A Survey on Personalized and Pluralistic Preference Alignment in Large Language Modelscited by 25
- 2025Modeling and Optimizing User Preferences in AI Copilots: A Comprehensive Survey and Taxonomycited by 3
- 2026EpiPersona: Persona Projection and Episode Coupling for Pluralistic Preference Modelingcited by 0
- 2026EpiPersona: Persona Projection and Episode Coupling for Pluralistic Preference Modeling30 Mar 2026
- 2025Modeling and Optimizing User Preferences in AI Copilots: A Comprehensive Survey and Taxonomy28 May 2025
- 2025A Survey on Personalized and Pluralistic Preference Alignment in Large Language Models9 Apr 2025
- 2025A Survey on Personalized Alignment -- The Missing Piece for Large Language Models in Real-World Applications21 Mar 2025
- 2025PersonaLens: A Benchmark for Personalization Evaluation in Conversational AI Assistantscited by 44
- 2024On the Way to LLM Personalization: Learning to Remember User Conversationscited by 21
- 2026Beyond Retrieval: Learning Compact User Representations for Scalable LLM Personalizationcited by 3
- 2025From Canonical to Complex: Benchmarking LLM Capabilities in Undergraduate Thermodynamicscited by 2
- 2024A Grounded Observer Framework for Establishing Guardrails for Foundation Models in Socially Sensitive Domainscited by 1
- 2025Finding A Voice: Exploring the Potential of African American Dialect and Voice Generation for Chatbotscited by 1
- 2025Score Before You Speak: Improving Persona Consistency in Dialogue Generation using Response Quality Scorescited by 1
- 2025Persona-Aware Alignment Framework for Personalized Dialogue Generationcited by 1
- 2026An Annotation Scheme and Classifier for Personal Facts in Dialoguecited by 0
- 2026Learning to Adapt Cross-Domain Preferences via Meta-LoRA for LLM Personalizationcited by 0
- 2026Aplaud: Adaptive Personalized Low-Rank Decomposition for User-Specific LLMcited by 0
- 2026Aplaud: Adaptive Personalized Low-Rank Decomposition for User-Specific LLM4 Sep 2026
- 2026Learning to Adapt Cross-Domain Preferences via Meta-LoRA for LLM Personalization1 Aug 2026
- 2026Beyond Retrieval: Learning Compact User Representations for Scalable LLM Personalization3 Jun 2026
- 2026An Annotation Scheme and Classifier for Personal Facts in Dialogue11 May 2026
- 2025Persona-Aware Alignment Framework for Personalized Dialogue Generation13 Nov 2025
- 2025From Canonical to Complex: Benchmarking LLM Capabilities in Undergraduate Thermodynamics29 Aug 2025
- 2025Score Before You Speak: Improving Persona Consistency in Dialogue Generation using Response Quality Scores9 Aug 2025
- 2025PersonaLens: A Benchmark for Personalization Evaluation in Conversational AI Assistants11 Jun 2025
- 2025Finding A Voice: Exploring the Potential of African American Dialect and Voice Generation for Chatbots7 Jan 2025
- 2024A Grounded Observer Framework for Establishing Guardrails for Foundation Models in Socially Sensitive Domains23 Dec 2024
- 2024On the Way to LLM Personalization: Learning to Remember User Conversations20 Nov 2024