What to Admit and How to Present: Governing Persistent Memory in LLM Agents

Persistent memory can improve personalization in LLM agents but can also induce sycophancy and cross-domain leakage. We distinguish two governance decisions: admission, which determines what recalled information enters the working context, and presentation, which determines how admitted information is expressed. We implement two inference-time designs without retraining: factor-compiled admission (FC), which assesses whole memory entries, and permission-semantic admission (PS), which decomposes entries into typed units; both translate adjudicated attributes into eligibility decisions via deterministic policies. We evaluate on a four-backbone development suite and an external benchmark with four tasks of 300 samples each. Relative to verbatim injection, FC and PS reduce pooled judge-assessed failure rates on the external benchmark by 6.7 and 8.8 percentage points (p = 2.7e-7 and 4.1e-12), and development-set cross-domain leakage falls by up to 29.5 percentage points. A query-conditioned gating baseline shows no significant change in objective-fact failure or pooled failure. Under matched admission budgets, PS outperforms random and relevance-based selection on external objective-fact judgment after Holm correction. Holding presentation fixed, tightening admission cuts cross-domain failure by a further 17.5 percentage points (p = 1.6e-4); in contrast, no comparison between two renderings of identical adjudicated outputs survives multiple-comparison correction. Both designs increase personalization failures, and PS misses the preregistered improvement and personalization-preservation criteria. These results support evaluating admission and presentation separately: selection quality provides task-specific safety gains, while preserving beneficial memory use remains unresolved.