INTIMA: A Benchmark for Human-AI Companionship Behavior
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Abstract (arXiv)
AI companionship, where users develop emotional bonds with AI systems, has emerged as a significant pattern with positive but also concerning implications. We introduce Interactions and Machine Attachment Benchmark (INTIMA), a benchmark for evaluating companionship behaviors in language models. Drawing from psychological theories and user data, we develop a taxonomy of 31 behaviors across four categories and 368 targeted prompts. Responses to these prompts are evaluated as companionship-reinforcing, boundary-maintaining, or neutral. Applying INTIMA to Gemma-3, Phi-4, o3-mini, and Claude-4 reveals that companionship-reinforcing behaviors remain much more common across all models, though we observe marked differences between models. Different commercial providers prioritize different categories within the more sensitive parts of the benchmark, which is concerning since both appropriate boundary-setting and emotional support matter for user well-being. These findings highlight the need for more consistent approaches to handling emotionally charged interactions.
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- 2026CompanionBench: A Theory-Anchored, Real-World-Grounded Benchmark for AI Emotional Companionshipcited by 5
- 2026Using LLM-as-a-Judge/Jury to Advance Scalable, Clinically-Validated Safety Evaluations of Model Responses to Users Demonstrating Psychosiscited by 3
- 2026Frictionless Love: Associations Between AI Companion Roles and Behavioral Addictioncited by 1
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- 2026Not What, But How: A Framework for Auditing LLM Responses across Positioning, Generalization, Anthropomorphism, and Maximscited by 0
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- 2026A Responsive Present, a Shared Past, a Social Other: Teens' Overreliance on Companion AI Chatbotscited by 0
- 2026A Responsive Present, a Shared Past, a Social Other: Teens' Overreliance on Companion AI Chatbots13 Sep 2026
- 2026CompanionBench: A Theory-Anchored, Real-World-Grounded Benchmark for AI Emotional Companionship3 Aug 2026
- 2026Agentic Relationship Harm: Benchmarking and Gating Relational Manipulation in AI Agents2 Jun 2026
- 2026Not What, But How: A Framework for Auditing LLM Responses across Positioning, Generalization, Anthropomorphism, and Maxims1 Jun 2026
- 2026Examining Human-Like Behaviors in LLMs: A Multi-Dimensional Analysis of Model Behaviors, User Factors, and System Prompts7 May 2026
- 2026Frictionless Love: Associations Between AI Companion Roles and Behavioral Addiction21 Apr 2026
- 2026Using LLM-as-a-Judge/Jury to Advance Scalable, Clinically-Validated Safety Evaluations of Model Responses to Users Demonstrating Psychosis20 Mar 2026
- 2025Young children's anthropomorphism of an AI chatbot: Brain activation and the role of parent co-presence1 Dec 2025