Experience Sharing in Mutual Reinforcement Learning for Heterogeneous Language Models

We introduce Mutual Reinforcement Learning, a framework for concurrent RL post-training in which heterogeneous LLM policies exchange typed experience while keeping separate parameters, objectives, and tokenizers. The framework combines a Shared Experience Exchange (SEE), Multi-Worker Resource Allocation (MWRA), and a Tokenizer Heterogeneity Layer (THL) that retokenizes text and aligns token-level traces across incompatible vocabularies. This substrate makes the experience-sharing design question operational across model families. We instantiate three controlled probes on top of GRPO: data-level rollout sharing via Peer Rollout Pooling (PRP), value-level advantage sharing via Cross-Policy GRPO Advantage Sharing (XGRPO), and outcome-level success transfer via Success-Gated Transfer (SGT). A contextual-bandit analysis characterizes their structural positions on a stability-support trade-off: PRP pays density-ratio variance and THL residual costs, XGRPO preserves on-policy actor support while changing scalar baselines, and SGT supplies a rescue-set score direction toward verified peer successes. In the evaluated regime, outcome-level sharing occupies the favorable point of this trade-off.