# Learning Preference Adaptation for Large Language Model Personalization via Verbal Reinforcement Learning

arXiv: https://arxiv.org/abs/2608.09507 · HTML: https://mlsanity.com/paper/2608.09507/

## Key facts

- No citing papers in the map yet (data through 14 Oct 2026).
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- First posted on arXiv 10 Aug 2026.

## Builds on (most cited first, 30 of 42)

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## Abstract (arXiv)

Natural language user preferences provide an interpretable interface for LLM personalization. However, universal preference summaries often contain information irrelevant to a particular downstream task. Directly supplying the full preference summary therefore wastes context capacity and introduces cross-task distraction, while manually designing task-specific preference views is difficult to scale. In this work, we study task-specific preference adaptation: given a universal user preference summary and a downstream task, derive a task-conditioned representation that preserves sufficient decision-relevant evidence while removing redundant context. To this end, we propose textscAlignXada, a training-free meta-learning framework that induces reusable textual refinement policies for adapting universal preference summaries to task-specific ones. The refinement policy is iteratively optimized by a meta learner through verbal reinforcement learning. Across 13 tasks and three downstream models (39 task--model cells), textscAlignXada achieves an average gain of 3.82 points, improving 33 cells while retaining only 22.8% of the original profile tokens and outperforming RAG in 36 cells. An extended faithfulness analysis further shows that the refined profiles remain largely grounded in the source preferences while preserving task-relevant personalization signals, suggesting that profile-side adaptation serves as a practical complement to universal memory construction for lifelong personalized agents.