# Memory-Driven Self-Disclosure and Relational Turning Points: A Longitudinal Multimodal Study of Human-AI Interaction

arXiv: https://arxiv.org/abs/2607.14593 · HTML: https://mlsanity.com/paper/2607.14593/

## Key facts

- No citing papers in the map yet (data through 14 Oct 2026).
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- First posted on arXiv 16 Jul 2026.

## Builds on (most cited first, 2 of 2)

- [Detecting Low Rapport During Natural Interactions in Small Groups from Non-Verbal Behaviour](https://mlsanity.com/paper/1801.06055/) (2018)
- [Understanding the Impact of Long-Term Memory on Self-Disclosure with Large Language Model-Driven Chatbots for Public Health Intervention](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2402.11353/) (2024)

## Abstract (arXiv)

As conversational AI systems are designed for repeated use, a central question is how a series of interactions becomes a relationship. We present a longitudinal multimodal study of a memory-augmented conversational agent (24 participants x 10 sessions), in which participants rated five relational constructs -- familiarity, self-disclosure, perceived memory, conversational quality, and enjoyment -- after each session. Two complementary dynamics emerge. First, conversational quality strongly shapes how enjoyable a session feels in the moment but does not carry forward across sessions, whereas perceived memory is relationally conditioned -- predicted by prior relational state rather than reflecting system capability alone -- and it shapes later enjoyment indirectly, via subsequent self-disclosure. Second, relationships are punctuated by discrete turning points -- crashes and surges -- that are partially traceable in multimodal behavior and open different intervention windows: surges are more behaviorally detectable in the moment, enjoyment surges persist more reliably than enjoyment crashes recover, and some crashes are better forecast from person-specific behavioral drift than detected after they have already occurred. Together, the findings suggest that longitudinal human-AI relationships are built through both slow accumulation and abrupt turning points.