# Bring My Cup! Personalizing Vision-Language-Action Models with Visual Attentive Prompting

arXiv: https://arxiv.org/abs/2512.20014 · HTML: https://mlsanity.com/paper/2512.20014/

## Key facts

- Cited by 6 papers in the map (data through 14 Oct 2026).
- Placed in Reasoning and chain-of-thought in VLA, one of 13 directions in Vision-language-action models.
- Builds on 43 of its 55 references that are in the map.
- First posted on arXiv 23 Dec 2025.

## Placed in

- Vision-language-action models / [Reasoning and chain-of-thought in VLA](https://mlsanity.com/vla/reasoning-and-chain-of-thought-in-vla/)

## Builds on (most cited first, 30 of 43)

- [DINOv2: Learning Robust Visual Features without Supervision](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2304.07193/) (2023)
- [Grounding DINO: Marrying DINO with Grounded Pre-Training for Open-Set Object Detection](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2303.05499/) (2023)
- [DreamBooth: Fine Tuning Text-to-Image Diffusion Models for Subject-Driven Generation](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2208.12242/) (2022)
- [RT-2: Vision-Language-Action Models Transfer Web Knowledge to Robotic Control](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2307.15818/) (2023)
- [OpenVLA: An Open-Source Vision-Language-Action Model](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2406.09246/) (2024)
- [SAM 2: Segment Anything in Images and Videos](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2408.00714/) (2024)
- [π0: A Vision-Language-Action Flow Model for General Robot Control](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2410.24164/) (2024)
- [An Image is Worth One Word: Personalizing Text-to-Image Generation using Textual Inversion](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2208.01618/) (2022)
- [π0.5: a Vision-Language-Action Model with Open-World Generalization](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2504.16054/) (2025)
- [IP-Adapter: Text Compatible Image Prompt Adapter for Text-to-Image Diffusion Models](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2308.06721/) (2023)
- [Multi-Concept Customization of Text-to-Image Diffusion](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2212.04488/) (2022)
- [DROID: A Large-Scale In-The-Wild Robot Manipulation Dataset](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2403.12945/) (2024)
- [PaliGemma: A versatile 3B VLM for transfer](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2407.07726/) (2024)
- [BridgeData V2: A Dataset for Robot Learning at Scale](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2308.12952/) (2023)
- [MemoryBank: Enhancing Large Language Models with Long-Term Memory](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2305.10250/) (2023)
- [Evaluating Real-World Robot Manipulation Policies in Simulation](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2405.05941/) (2024)
- [PhotoMaker: Customizing Realistic Human Photos via Stacked ID Embedding](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2312.04461/) (2023)
- [TraceVLA: Visual Trace Prompting Enhances Spatial-Temporal Awareness for Generalist Robotic Policies](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2412.10345/) (2024)
- [π*0.6: a VLA That Learns From Experience](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2511.14759/) (2025)
- [Personalize Segment Anything Model with One Shot](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2305.03048/) (2023)
- [TidyBot: Personalized Robot Assistance with Large Language Models](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2305.05658/) (2023)
- [What does CLIP know about a red circle? Visual prompt engineering for VLMs](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2304.06712/) (2023)
- [PIVOT: Iterative Visual Prompting Elicits Actionable Knowledge for VLMs](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2402.07872/) (2024)
- [RH20T: A Comprehensive Robotic Dataset for Learning Diverse Skills in One-Shot](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2307.00595/) (2023)
- [VLABench: A Large-Scale Benchmark for Language-Conditioned Robotics Manipulation with Long-Horizon Reasoning Tasks](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2412.18194/) (2024)
- [Open-World Object Manipulation using Pre-trained Vision-Language Models](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2303.00905/) (2023)
- [MOKA: Open-World Robotic Manipulation through Mark-Based Visual Prompting](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2403.03174/) (2024)
- [What Happens To BERT Embeddings During Fine-tuning?](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2004.14448/) (2020)
- [Democratizing Large Language Models via Personalized Parameter-Efficient Fine-tuning](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2402.04401/) (2024)
- [Vision-Language-Action Models for Robotics: A Review Towards Real-World Applications](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2510.07077/) (2025)

## Built on by (most cited first, 6 of 6)

- [VP-VLA: Visual Prompting as an Interface for Vision-Language-Action Models](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2603.22003/) (2026)
- [Premover: Fast Vision-Language-Action Control by Acting Before Instructions Are Complete](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2605.12160/) (2026)
- [Personalizing Embodied Multimodal Large Language Model Agents over Long-term User Interactions](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2605.26256/) (2026)
- [DeicticVLA: Unifying Instruction Modes Based on Language and Deictic Gestures in a Single VLA](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2608.28108/) (2026)
- [Cue the Flow: Steering Flow-Matching Policies for Open-World Delivery Manipulation](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2609.38989/) (2026)
- [Splat2Act: From Captured Scenes to Personalized VLA Manipulation](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2610.13945/) (2026)

## Abstract (arXiv)

While Vision-Language-Action (VLA) models generalize well to generic instructions, they struggle with personalized commands such as "bring my cup," where the robot must act on one specific instance among visually similar objects. We study this setting of manipulating personal objects, in which a VLA must identify and control a user-specific object unseen during training using only a few reference images. To address this challenge, we propose Visual Attentive Prompting (VAP), a simple-yet-effective training-free perceptual adapter that equips frozen VLAs with top-down selective attention. VAP treats the reference images as a non-parametric visual memory, grounds the personal object in the scene through open-vocabulary detection and embedding-based matching, and then injects this grounding as a visual prompt by highlighting the object and rewriting the instruction. We construct two simulation benchmarks, Personalized-SIMPLER and Personalized-VLABench, and a real-world tabletop benchmark to evaluate personalized manipulation across multiple robots and tasks. Experiments show that VAP consistently outperforms generic policies and token-learning baselines in both success rate and correct-object manipulation, helping to bridge the gap between semantic understanding and instance-level control.