# Forget to Know, Remember to Use: Context-Aware Unlearning for Large Language Models

arXiv: https://arxiv.org/abs/2510.17620 · HTML: https://mlsanity.com/paper/2510.17620/

## Key facts

- Cited by 3 papers in the map (data through 14 Oct 2026).
- Placed in Machine unlearning, one of 12 directions in LLM safety and security.
- Builds on 31 of its 38 references that are in the map.
- First posted on arXiv 20 Oct 2025.

## Placed in

- LLM safety and security / [Machine unlearning](https://mlsanity.com/safety/machine-unlearning/)

## Builds on (most cited first, 30 of 31)

- [Language Models are Few-Shot Learners](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2005.14165/) (2020)
- [Training language models to follow instructions with human feedback](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2203.02155/) (2022)
- [The Llama 3 Herd of Models](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2407.21783/) (2024)
- [Llama 2: Open Foundation and Fine-Tuned Chat Models](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2307.09288/) (2023)
- [Retrieval-Augmented Generation for Knowledge-Intensive NLP Tasks](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2005.11401/) (2020)
- [Qwen3 Technical Report](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2505.09388/) (2025)
- [Direct Preference Optimization: Your Language Model is Secretly a Reward Model](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2305.18290/) (2023)
- [Extracting Training Data from Large Language Models](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2012.07805/) (2020)
- [TOFU: A Task of Fictitious Unlearning for LLMs](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2401.06121/) (2024)
- [The WMDP Benchmark: Measuring and Reducing Malicious Use With Unlearning](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2403.03218/) (2024)
- [Negative Preference Optimization: From Catastrophic Collapse to Effective Unlearning](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2404.05868/) (2024)
- [A Systematic Survey of Prompt Engineering in Large Language Models: Techniques and Applications](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2402.07927/) (2024)
- [Who's Harry Potter? Approximate Unlearning in LLMs](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2310.02238/) (2023)
- [Large Language Model Unlearning](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2310.10683/) (2023)
- [RAFT: Adapting Language Model to Domain Specific RAG](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2403.10131/) (2024)
- [MUSE: Machine Unlearning Six-Way Evaluation for Language Models](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2407.06460/) (2024)
- [In-Context Unlearning: Language Models as Few Shot Unlearners](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2310.07579/) (2023)
- [Many-Shot In-Context Learning](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2404.11018/) (2024)
- [Simplicity Prevails: Rethinking Negative Preference Optimization for LLM Unlearning](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2410.07163/) (2024)
- [Foundation Models and Fair Use](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2303.15715/) (2023)
- [Lift Yourself Up: Retrieval-augmented Text Generation with Self Memory](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2305.02437/) (2023)
- [Unlearning or Obfuscating? Jogging the Memory of Unlearned LLMs via Benign Relearning](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2406.13356/) (2024)
- [OpenUnlearning: Accelerating LLM Unlearning via Unified Benchmarking of Methods and Metrics](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2506.12618/) (2025)
- [Rethinking LLM Unlearning Objectives: A Gradient Perspective and Go Beyond](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2502.19301/) (2025)
- [UnUnlearning: Unlearning is not sufficient for content regulation in advanced generative AI](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2407.00106/) (2024)
- [UNDIAL: Self-Distillation with Adjusted Logits for Robust Unlearning in Large Language Models](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2402.10052/) (2024)
- [Exploring Criteria of Loss Reweighting to Enhance LLM Unlearning](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2505.11953/) (2025)
- [Fast Exact Unlearning for In-Context Learning Data for LLMs](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2402.00751/) (2024)
- [Machine Unlearning Doesn't Do What You Think: Lessons for Generative AI Policy and Research](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2412.06966/) (2024)
- [Constrained Entropic Unlearning: A Primal-Dual Framework for Large Language Models](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2506.05314/) (2025)

## Built on by (most cited first, 3 of 3)

- [Distinguishable Deletion: Unifying Knowledge Erasure and Refusal for Large Language Model Unlearning](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2605.16776/) (2026)
- [When Retain Constraints Conflict: Mitigating Forget-Retain Interference in Tabular Data](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2609.06786/) (2026)
- [RA2: Retain-Anchored Attraction Preserves Forget-Adjacent Utility in LLM Unlearning](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2610.19385/) (2026)

## Abstract (arXiv)

Large language models may encode sensitive information or outdated knowledge that needs to be removed, to ensure responsible and compliant model responses. Unlearning has emerged as an efficient alternative to full retraining, aiming to remove specific knowledge while preserving overall model utility. Existing evaluations of unlearning methods focus on (1) the extent of forgetting of the target knowledge (forget set) and (2) maintaining performance on the retain set (i.e., utility). However, these evaluations overlook an important usability aspect: users may still want the model to leverage the removed information if it is re-introduced in the prompt. In a systematic evaluation of six state-of-the-art unlearning methods, we find that they consistently impair such contextual utility. To address this, we augment unlearning objectives with a plug-in term that preserves the model's ability to use forgotten knowledge when it is present in context. Extensive experiments demonstrate that our approach restores contextual utility to near original levels while still maintaining effective forgetting and retain-set utility.