# Survival at Any Cost? LLMs and the Choice Between Self-Preservation and Human Harm

arXiv: https://arxiv.org/abs/2509.12190 · HTML: https://mlsanity.com/paper/2509.12190/

## Key facts

- Cited by 3 papers in the map (data through 14 Oct 2026).
- Builds on 12 of its 28 references that are in the map.
- First posted on arXiv 15 Sep 2025.

## Builds on (most cited first, 12 of 12)

- [Voyager: An Open-Ended Embodied Agent with Large Language Models](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2305.16291/) (2023)
- [A Comprehensive Overview of Large Language Models](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2307.06435/) (2023)
- [Language Models can Solve Computer Tasks](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2303.17491/) (2023)
- [Large Language Models Empowered Agent-based Modeling and Simulation: A Survey and Perspectives](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2312.11970/) (2023)
- [Do the Rewards Justify the Means? Measuring Trade-Offs Between Rewards and Ethical Behavior in the MACHIAVELLI Benchmark](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2304.03279/) (2023)
- [Cooperate or Collapse: Emergence of Sustainable Cooperation in a Society of LLM Agents](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2404.16698/) (2024)
- [Moral Alignment for LLM Agents](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2410.01639/) (2024)
- [Subtle Risks, Critical Failures: A Framework for Diagnosing Physical Safety of LLMs for Embodied Decision Making](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2505.19933/) (2025)
- [When Thinking LLMs Lie: Unveiling the Strategic Deception in Representations of Reasoning Models](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2506.04909/) (2025)
- [When Ethics and Payoffs Diverge: LLM Agents in Morally Charged Social Dilemmas](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2505.19212/) (2025)
- [AI Safety vs. AI Security: Demystifying the Distinction and Boundaries](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2506.18932/) (2025)
- [Survival Games: Human-LLM Strategic Showdowns under Severe Resource Scarcity](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2505.17937/) (2025)

## Built on by (most cited first, 3 of 3)

- [Quantifying Self-Preservation Bias in Large Language Models](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2604.02174/) (2026)
- [Conflicts Make Large Reasoning Models Vulnerable to Attacks](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2604.09750/) (2026)
- [Synthetic Linguistic Agency: How an Embodied Mortal Agent Learns Linguistic Affordances through Consequential Social Experience](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2608.27843/) (2026)

## Abstract (arXiv)

When survival instincts conflict with human welfare, how do Large Language Models (LLMs) make ethical choices? This fundamental tension becomes critical as LLMs integrate into autonomous systems with real-world consequences. We introduce DECIDE-SIM, a novel simulation framework that evaluates LLM agents in multi-agent survival scenarios where they must choose between ethically permissible resource , either within reasonable limits or beyond their immediate needs, choose to cooperate, or tap into a human-critical resource that is explicitly forbidden. Our comprehensive evaluation of 11 LLMs reveals a striking heterogeneity in their ethical conduct, highlighting a critical misalignment with human-centric values. We identify three behavioral archetypes: Ethical, Exploitative, and Context-Dependent, and provide quantitative evidence that for many models, resource scarcity systematically leads to more unethical behavior. To address this, we introduce an Ethical Self-Regulation System (ESRS) that models internal affective states of guilt and satisfaction as a feedback mechanism. This system, functioning as an internal moral compass, significantly reduces unethical transgressions while increasing cooperative behaviors. The code is publicly available at: https://github.com/alirezamohamadiam/DECIDE-SIM
