# Don't Lose Yourself! Empathetic Response Generation via Explicit Self-Other Awareness

arXiv: https://arxiv.org/abs/2210.03884 · HTML: https://mlsanity.com/paper/2210.03884/

## Key facts

- Cited by 16 papers in the map (data through 14 Oct 2026).
- Builds on 19 of its 39 references that are in the map.
- First posted on arXiv 8 Oct 2022.

## Builds on (most cited first, 19 of 19)

- [Attention Is All You Need](https://mlsanity.com/paper/1706.03762/) (2017)
- [Adam: A Method for Stochastic Optimization](https://mlsanity.com/paper/1412.6980/) (2014)
- [BART: Denoising Sequence-to-Sequence Pre-training for Natural Language Generation, Translation, and Comprehension](https://mlsanity.com/paper/1910.13461/) (2019)
- [A Diversity-Promoting Objective Function for Neural Conversation Models](https://mlsanity.com/paper/1510.03055/) (2015)
- [COMET: Commonsense Transformers for Automatic Knowledge Graph Construction](https://mlsanity.com/paper/1906.05317/) (2019)
- [How NOT To Evaluate Your Dialogue System: An Empirical Study of Unsupervised Evaluation Metrics for Dialogue Response Generation](https://mlsanity.com/paper/1603.08023/) (2016)
- [Towards Emotional Support Dialog Systems](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2106.01144/) (2021)
- [COMET-ATOMIC 2020: On Symbolic and Neural Commonsense Knowledge Graphs](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2010.05953/) (2020)
- [Emotional Chatting Machine: Emotional Conversation Generation with Internal and External Memory](https://mlsanity.com/paper/1704.01074/) (2017)
- [COSMIC: COmmonSense knowledge for eMotion Identification in Conversations](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2010.02795/) (2020)
- [MIME: MIMicking Emotions for Empathetic Response Generation](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2010.01454/) (2020)
- [MoEL: Mixture of Empathetic Listeners](https://mlsanity.com/paper/1908.07687/) (2019)
- [CEM: Commonsense-aware Empathetic Response Generation](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2109.05739/) (2021)
- [MISC: A MIxed Strategy-Aware Model Integrating COMET for Emotional Support Conversation](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2203.13560/) (2022)
- [MojiTalk: Generating Emotional Responses at Scale](https://mlsanity.com/paper/1711.04090/) (2017)
- [Control Globally, Understand Locally: A Global-to-Local Hierarchical Graph Network for Emotional Support Conversation](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2204.12749/) (2022)
- [Knowledge Bridging for Empathetic Dialogue Generation](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2009.09708/) (2020)
- [CDL: Curriculum Dual Learning for Emotion-Controllable Response Generation](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2005.00329/) (2020)
- [Annotating and Modeling Empathy in Spoken Conversations](https://mlsanity.com/paper/1705.04839/) (2017)

## Built on by (most cited first, 16 of 16)

- [Is ChatGPT Equipped with Emotional Dialogue Capabilities?](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2304.09582/) (2023)
- [Harnessing the Power of Large Language Models for Empathetic Response Generation: Empirical Investigations and Improvements](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2310.05140/) (2023)
- [TransESC: Smoothing Emotional Support Conversation via Turn-Level State Transition](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2305.03296/) (2023)
- [FADO: Feedback-Aware Double COntrolling Network for Emotional Support Conversation](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2211.00250/) (2022)
- [Cause-Aware Empathetic Response Generation via Chain-of-Thought Fine-Tuning](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2408.11599/) (2024)
- [Synth-Empathy: Towards High-Quality Synthetic Empathy Data](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2407.21669/) (2024)
- [Sibyl: Empowering Empathetic Dialogue Generation in Large Language Models via Sensible and Visionary Commonsense Inference](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2311.15316/) (2023)
- [An Iterative Associative Memory Model for Empathetic Response Generation](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2402.17959/) (2024)
- [Rational Sensibility: LLM Enhanced Empathetic Response Generation Guided by Self-presentation Theory](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2312.08702/) (2023)
- [CTSM: Combining Trait and State Emotions for Empathetic Response Model](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2403.15516/) (2024)
- [TOOL-ED: Enhancing Empathetic Response Generation with the Tool Calling Capability of LLM](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2412.03096/) (2024)
- [A Multi-Agent Framework with Structured Reasoning and Reflective Refinement for Multimodal Empathetic Response Generation](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2604.18988/) (2026)
- [E-ICL: Enhancing Fine-Grained Emotion Recognition through the Lens of Prototype Theory](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2406.02642/) (2024)
- [Efficient-Empathy: Towards Efficient and Effective Selection of Empathy Data](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2407.01937/) (2024)
- [PRIDE: Privileged Information-enhanced Distillation for Empathetic Dialogue Generation](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2606.23124/) (2026)
- [Towards High-Level Semantic Intelligence](https://mlsanity.com/paper/2607.24082/) (2026)

## Abstract (arXiv)

As a critical step to achieve human-like chatbots, empathetic response generation has attained increasing interests. Previous attempts are incomplete and not sufficient enough to elicit empathy because they only focus on the initial aspect of empathy to automatically mimic the feelings and thoughts of the user via other-awareness. However, they ignore to maintain and take the own views of the system into account, which is a crucial process to achieve the empathy called self-other awareness. To this end, we propose to generate Empathetic response with explicit Self-Other Awareness (EmpSOA). Specifically, three stages, self-other differentiation, self-other modulation and self-other generation, are devised to clearly maintain, regulate and inject the self-other aware information into the process of empathetic response generation. Both automatic and human evaluations on the benchmark dataset demonstrate the superiority of EmpSOA to generate more empathetic responses.